I am sure you are up to your eardrums in family goodness, but I just thought I'd share a bit of hypocrisy that finally pushed this whole thing into the realm of absurdly laughable and amusing, rather than personally offensive and insulting:

We didn't ignore you! WE don't ignore anyone! (http://community.livejournal.com/austinpoly/79788.html?thread=133292#t133292)

*bwhahhhahahaah*
*dead of the sardonic laughter*